Women who stay with abusers aren’t “not to be trusted”, IMO. Theres a lot of reasons people stay with abusers and a good chunk of it is the psychological shit you go through. The abuser convinces you of two things: if you leave you will pay for it worse than a black eye, and 2. you actually have it good because yeah you gotta put up with abuse but shit it’s better than nothing and without the abuser that’s what you are, nothing. 

I was on the recieving end of an abusive relationship for about 10 years or so. It fucks you up in the worst kinds of ways and completely distorts reality. If the story is true, there’s probably more at play on her end than we know. 

As for capital e. I woulda paid him something just for coming out and making the night special. Not a lot, mind you, but something. He isn’t really a rapper. he doesn’t have any releases. Doing the show for free doesn’t really benefit him because literally nobody is going to walk out of the venue and buy his albums because they don’t exist. His family probably got in his ear about how he should be making money off of it, so he played chicken and lost. He thought ICP would cave in and they didn’t. Shit, he probably had a paying job that he was going to call in sick for to attend. They could have at least paid him whatever he woulda missed from work. 

J’s bit about the news did say that it “involves all of you” so I’m guessing theres a big news update on the gang list thing. Maybe they’re planning on filing a class action suit where we can all cop a couple bucks by the end of it. 

And I definitely think J talking about hooking up with chicks is his way of trying to show sugar slam what she’s missing out on which is kinda shitty. 

scruffy said

Mr. Tidwell said
Women who stay with abusers aren’t “not to be trusted”, IMO. Theres a lot of reasons people stay with abusers and a good chunk of it is the psychological shit you go through. The abuser convinces you of two things: if you leave you will pay for it worse than a black eye, and 2. you actually have it good because yeah you gotta put up with abuse but shit it’s better than nothing and without the abuser that’s what you are, nothing.

none of this lends itself to trustworthiness.  quite the opposite. 

if shes willing to roll on herself to gain nothing, shell roll on j for less. 

Sometimes pop Psychology is really thought-provoking: “The pathological need to control on the part of the abuser and the pathological need for attention on the part of the victim is a match made in heaven.”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/enlightened-living/200807/understanding-the-dynamics-abusive-relationships

The idea that one cannot ever give away their own power appeals to me, so if someone finds themselves drawn to something unhealthy, that seems to ultimately be their choice and responsibility. James Bond bitchslaps, anyone?

“Dear HatchetHouse Forum,

You will never believe this but I swear every word is true….”

I’m surprised no one has brought up “Pineapple Pizza”.

Ya’ll slippin’…

Cheshyr said
“Dear HatchetHouse Forum,

You will never believe this but I swear every word is true….”

 

I’m surprised no one has brought up “Pineapple Pizza”.

 

Ya’ll slippin’…

i did not read this post before i posted mine…. if that helps.

@scruffy  I had thought of “Dreams of Grandeur” too but that one’s more about a dude trying to turn a ho straight and “Pineapple Pizza” is more about a dude going out with a chick that’s playin’ him and another dude.

I’d bet 50 JuggaloCoins that one of his next sexcapade stories will sound a lot like DoG. EH?! there ya go; “pineapple pizza”? PP? Squirting…? Eh, EH? [wink wink nudge nudge]

Cindy… Vicki… hmmm….

SPECULATION *ABOUNDS*!!!!

Mr. Tidwell said 

I’m saying it’s independent of trust. She’s the victim of a crime, not an accomplice. Part of the crime is psychological torture which makes you unable to defend yourself. 

Beyond a victim’s perspective, Harvard research may be a path to healing: “Individuals who appraise a traumatic event as a turning point in their life story, a central part of their identity, and a reference point for generating expectations about the future exhibit greater distress. Our results suggest that individuals who appraise a traumatic event as a reference point for their future may be especially at risk for PTSD.” Research suggests that therapy with systematic exposure, rather than avoidance, may truly help. Safe spaces, the silent killers?

https://dash.harvard.edu/bitstream/handle/1/8916506/trauma_centrality_and_ptsd.pdf?sequence=2

Although they do it every single year, it’s possible that this big announcement at the seminar will actually be a shocker. I doubt it has anything to do witg the FBI, because I feel like somebody somewhere would have mentioned it already (or before then), since most court proceedings are public anyway.

Maybe I’m just hoping for too much, but hopefully the announcement does split some wigs. “Biggest news in juggalo history, no exaggeration” does seem promising. I don’t think we’ll know if its genuine or not, until another interview happens before the GOTJ. Maybe ask and reclarify his statement, and see what his response is.

J said the big news at the seminar involves all of us-maybe they are gonna ask Juggalos to do a kickstarter for the next Jokers’ card?