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9:52 pm
January 6, 2013
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The other night i was out with a couple of female friends, non of which im trying to bang, although i have in the past.
Rumors have it that the one girl's boyfriend hit her, and dude is kinda a friend of mine.
He comes to the after hours spot we was at, loud and crazy. All good in my eyes, people fight, couples fight thats their bizness.
But when i seen him grab her hair, and yank her away, i snapped. I gripped him up and threw him to the ground. And to the wall and bench.
Like i said, i considered him a friend, and he really didnt hit her, so i didn't bloody him up. Just kinda slammed him around.
Every girl i was with said i did the right thing. And at the time i felt like i did.
But that girl left with that dude that night.
1st thing i was worried bout, was him taking out his anger on her. From what i did.
Also did i make her feel even more sorry for him, to where she needed to go with him.
It's really not in me to just watch some foul shit go down, and not step in. But in this scenario i wonder if i shouldn't have stepped in
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10:04 pm
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May 22, 2012
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did it make you feel better to hurt the guy? thats the standard i use.
but, im a creep.
i dont play that abusive shit at all. it makes me abusive.
did he get the message[s]? that would help.
But that girl left with that dude that night.
1st thing i was worried bout, was him taking out his anger on her. From what i did.
the girl evidently has almost as many issues as the guy, but that aint your fault. nor would it be, if he did take it out on her, she chose to go with him, even after being shoved around, right?
Also did i make her feel even more sorry for him, to where she needed to go with him.
possible. but again, thats on her.
all in all, im not gonna say you were wrong. even if they both stay fuckin up, you did your part.
i wouldnt get drawn in any further, though.
awfully paranoid, arent you?
10:31 pm
January 6, 2013
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My biggest wonder is, if u see a dude being abusive to a chic, should u step in and stop it. Or just let it go.
If i stop the dude, does he take it out on the girl behind closed doors.
If i let it go, how can i live with myself.
From tadpoles to frogs to Jesus to legends.
10:39 pm
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May 22, 2012
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Frog said:
My biggest wonder is, if u see a dude being abusive to a chic, should u step in and stop it. Or just let it go.
sure. unless itll cost you too much.
If i stop the dude, does he take it out on the girl behind closed doors.
complex problem, that. but like i said, out of your control.
If i let it go, how can i live with myself.
same as if you dont let it go. best you can.
awfully paranoid, arent you?
5:53 pm
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April 1, 2012
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I don't like the abusive shit neither. Got into a fight with a kid in high school over that shit. This was years ago and he punched my friend in the face knocking her down. I beat his ass and then his friends all jumped in. I didn't leave with any cuts or bruises or anything after being jumped by 7 dudes, some fucking how, but I left feeling pumped and good about myself. You did the right thing. No dude should do that to a chick. But if the chick is gonna go home with the dude, shes just as nuts. Fuck that noise.
7:52 pm
Yeah, I hate the abusive shit. I myself once punched a dude for yokin his girl up. I ended up havin to fight both him and his boy at once for it. But the girl actually walked off with me in that situation. Which makes it all hilarious. But that aside, your worried about the girl gettin hurt, but know she's been hit before? Cut that out. There is no reason to feel bad for a person who keeps themselves in a situation where they get abused. "Beaten wife syndrom" is the dumbest shit I ever heard. A dude is trash if he hits a woman yes, but a woman is also a moron if they keep runnin back to get hit. I have to ask why you consider this guy a friend? One of my best friends is severely bi-polar and snaps on his gf all the time. He would never lay a hand on her and I know that, but it's still hard for me to even stand there when he's just screaming in his girls face, not even touchin her. Just that aggression alone towards a woman unprovoked makes me uneasy.
9:04 pm
January 6, 2013
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I dont consider dude a friend anymore. Not after seeing that shit.
Up until that point i did, was the only reason i didnt bloody him the fuck up.
From tadpoles to frogs to Jesus to legends.
2:19 pm
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April 1, 2012
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There was a dude arguing with his chick Monday morning at one of the Gatherings I was at. I ate breakfast, cleaned up my camp site, packed up, smoked up with my neighbors, the whole 2-4hrs of this, the dudes yelling at his chick. Their off in some tent and god damn the dude was heated. I forget what happened, he was sounding like an asshole, she did something only a cheating bitch would do, something of another I don't know. Thought it was fucked up but it was something to eat my eggs and scrapple with.
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