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January 10, 2013
1:38 pm
juggalette1116
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Okay so there's some 'fam' I know that went to jail the other night. His wife and him had split up a few days before and have a child together. Basically, over something stupid, he beat the crap out of her face and knocked out one of her teeth. He then continued to speed off a street doing 60+ with his 2 year old daughter in the backseat of the car. The daughter had been in line of sight when he beat the wife.

 

I had some problems with him four years ago when I was 14. He lead me on until he got what he wanted, then let me know he had no interest in an actual relationship with me. He also pretended to get jumped in order to get money for weed. Which, I don't care, I smoke too but I would've just given him the money if he would've asked.

 

The day after this guy and his wife split up, he started hanging out with another female. I have this girl's phone number. What's on my mind is my conscience. This girl knows he's in jail but I'm not sure if she has any idea what happened. Considering the fact that he beat the shit out of his wife, should I at least attempt to warn the girl about this guy, or tell her why he's in jail now? I usually don't get involved in people's personal lives. Especially of people I don't know, but I feel like this is a matter of physical safety. Should I try to warn her, or not?

January 10, 2013
2:25 pm
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Damn it just got Dr. Phil up in the mother fucker llal. I will keep this short and to the point. First let me say that any man who hits on a women/child is a fucking coward that needs his own dick lodged in his throat.

Thing is your are the exes friend to this girl. She will almost certainly write off anything you tell her as some hater bullshit. Now im guessin' from what i've just read he must be a little of a smooth talker. If she knows he is in jail and still wants to be with him, either he smooth talked her or she just has some issues.

If this is the case then she definitely will not listen to what you have to say. I would leave it alone.

 

Please note that I may have no idea what i'm talking about and could be wrong. Fuck she may listen to you and dump the piece of shit……This all comes from my experiences

January 10, 2013
3:49 pm
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Thanks for the advice. I wish that things weren't so sketchy about it because I hate the idea that he would hurt another innocent person but at the same time she probably won't listen.

January 10, 2013
4:14 pm
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Well if it will weigh on your conscience then tellin' her couldn't hurt anything. The worst that will happen is she won't listen. Either way this dude is going to be hurting people for the rest of his life, and you do not need to feel responsible for anything that he does. She will figure out what he is really about, just a matter of time

January 10, 2013
4:24 pm
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That's true, but on the other hand when I have the resources to attempt to keep this girl from getting hurt, it seems a sort of passive malicious to let her get hurt so easily without giving her a warning. I probably will attempt. If anything, I can at least say that I wasn't a part of the Bystander Effect.

January 10, 2013
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Couldn't hurt to tell her.

 

I also have to argue that if a man beats on a women it doesn't exactly make him less of a man, that's sort of sexist. There be some big girls out there. If somebody beats on someone significantly weaker than them then that's what I call cowardice.

January 10, 2013
5:17 pm
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Im actually texting her right now. She didn't even know he was married and legitamitely cares about him. I feel sorry for her.

January 10, 2013
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Lucem Ferre said:

Couldn't hurt to tell her.

 

I also have to argue that if a man beats on a women it doesn't exactly make him less of a man, that's sort of sexist. There be some big girls out there. If somebody beats on someone significantly weaker than them then that's what I call cowardice.

Maybe i'm a little biased on it because I spent half of my childhood dealing with it. These pieces of trash ruin every life they come into contact with. Unless you are dating a chyna type bitch you have no reason to put your hands on her other than to stop her from hitting you.

 

I can say that because I have been there. Yes I was a fucking asshole and we were verbally abusive towards another. But this bitch would haul off and clock me in the face over the smallest of arguments. Did I want to knock her teeth down her throat? absolutely. But I didn't because I didn't want to lower myself and knew I couldn't look at myself in the mirror

January 10, 2013
5:33 pm
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Well, on a lighter, less agressive note, I'm glad you can look at yourself in the mirror and were above the bullshit.

January 10, 2013
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I once flipped out and beat on some girls face in elementary school. I felt bad about it, kinda still do especially since she didn't really deserve it.

January 10, 2013
5:48 pm
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LMAO that's different dude, you didn't know any better. Plus i'm sure you didn't do any damage lol

January 10, 2013
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There’s this dude I knew who threw his wife/GF what ever out of a moving car on a free way. The car was actually hers too. He came back later and threw their child’s car seat at her and drove off again. That guy is a piece of shit.

January 10, 2013
6:04 pm
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This dude is basically the equivalent of him.

 

By the way I called the girl.

January 10, 2013
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Man that shit boils my blood, how is this dude not in prison?

I had a step dad that used to jump out of cars rollin' down the road. They'd be fighting and yelling drivin' down the road, and he would just open the passenger door an fly out.

One time in particular we had just got done eating texas roadhouse and were going down the freeway. He jumped out at 65 miles an hour and I remember looking back and seeing him rolling in the road with traffic coming. Shit fucked with me lol

January 10, 2013
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juggalette1116 said:

This dude is basically the equivalent of him.

 

By the way I called the girl.

I hope everything works out. Did she sound genuine about hearin' you out?

January 10, 2013
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Yeah, she actually thanked me for going out of my way to warn her.

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