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August 19, 2013
11:08 pm
JabroniKilla
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Maybe u guys can give me some advice ive been on Unemployment for a lil over a year i have three weeks left.i never planned on being on it so long but i quit my job bevause of medical reasons.ive been told i was going thru alchol withdrawls or panic attacks or coke od.my last job i was Head line cook at a nice bar restaurant made great Money and tips had my own appartment.one day while working i couldny breath caught cab to er.i had taken a vic drank a beer or two(was allowed to drink at work)and did the smallest bumb of coke.i told the docs all this they said i had overdosed on coke i wasnt sure cause the amount was so small.next couple days i had attacks like that and my brain felt wierd.my job worked with me but i went to the er like ten times thinking iwas dying.now they said alchol wothdrawls and anxiety attacks.i tried sum meds sum take a month to work nothing helped.i lost my job and appartment living wot dad now and for last year have had same problems daily mostly me convinced im dying of something.so i got three weeks to find work but can i even work without flippin out idk.the (attacks) atent as bad but i feel different like slower no one else notices. So any medical/work advice or any thoughts

August 19, 2013
11:26 pm
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That truly sucks homie. If you can't get an extension on your unemployment benefits (i'm assuming you've used them both) you sound like you could qualify for SSDI. That's disability. You can qualify for that with depression, anxiety, etc. You would have to have   a doctor diagnose you though, more of a psychiatrist actually. That will take more than 3 weeks but at least you can get the ball rolling and try to get help as soon as possible. You might also want to look into food stamps and cash assistance from your local DTA (Department of Transitional Assistance), as that won't take as long to put through. I had to do it years ago, nothing to be ashamed of homie. We all need a little help sometimes. This probably isn't the way that you were looking to go but it's what first popped into my head. Hope everything works out for you, keep us posted. 

August 19, 2013
11:45 pm
JabroniKilla
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Thanks i Will look into disability i was just recommended Unemployment first yeah i used extenstions im om food stamps,i get 70 a month that Will goto 200 when unemp. Runs out thetes no cash assistance in wa. hopefully ill be able to work i was a hot shot cook food never came back and was fast alot of regular customers bit i have retail management exp toys r us so i might go back to retail i just dony want to start workin.then.run to er again but i wont know till i try thanks pat

August 20, 2013
12:17 am
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That sucks homie...Ive had my run ins with drugs too, and coke is no joke, and anxiety as well.  Disability would be an option, but finding a job you like doing is a really good way to keep your mind offa shit.  Retail might be a little further away from your demons then restuarants, but they still show up there too man trust me I know.  What Pat is saying about seeing a shrink to get disability diagnosis is also a chance to try to get some help for your problems too.  I had to go that route about 5 years ago, and having a neutral party tell me what I didn't want to hear, helped me get my mind right so I could get back into school and work.  I hope shit gets better keep us updated man.

"Somewhere theres a Waffle House thats severely understaffed right now" -OCJ to Scruffy watching a second stage act at the Gathering.

August 20, 2013
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I saw a shrink like five times he didnt See a need to continue just said i had anxiety i had a close family member die took it hard but nothing wierd about that my doc just pushed bs pills for shit like depression and blood pressure which didnt work.i am far fron depressed i still get siked for monday night raw every week just sayin im a happy go lucky kinda Guy whatever that means u guys Will definently stay updated hopefully i land a job and post about it here in the next couple weeks i have sum leads oh yeah i dont mess with coke no more strictly buds now which dont go well with the anxiety some people say that could be the root bit ive beeen smoking for 12yrs so i doubt it .

August 20, 2013
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Yea smoking decreases my anxiety, thats just me though i've heard some people like @old-mr-dangerous who as they got older smoking made them more paranoid, so I hope that dont happen to me....

"Somewhere theres a Waffle House thats severely understaffed right now" -OCJ to Scruffy watching a second stage act at the Gathering.

August 20, 2013
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OCJ_Brendan said
Yea smoking decreases my anxiety, thats just me though i've heard some people like @old-mr-dangerous who as they got older smoking made them more paranoid, so I hope that dont happen to me....

Absolutely does dawg. It happens to more than a handful of people. My mother and late brother are ones who get craaaazy paranoid but they both have mental illnesses. . . I'm sure there are different strains that will give you the high you seek, an indica or sativa. But shit who has the time, the money or the access to all of those choices? I just choose not to smoke anymore. Maybe twice a year if that. Healthy diet, sunshine and exercise plus breathing exercises do wonders for anxiety as well.

August 20, 2013
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Old Mr Dangerous said

Healthy diet, sunshine and exercise plus breathing exercises do wonders for anxiety as well.

sage words here....

"Somewhere theres a Waffle House thats severely understaffed right now" -OCJ to Scruffy watching a second stage act at the Gathering.

August 30, 2013
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JabroniKilla
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yeah ive been tryin healthy living luckily weed is legal here so i do have sum good choices between strains .oh yeah tommorow got me an interview its just with dominos but hey its a job and pizza is the shit

August 30, 2013
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Im happy to hear that ninja, a job is a job i always say.

"Somewhere theres a Waffle House thats severely understaffed right now" -OCJ to Scruffy watching a second stage act at the Gathering.

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