Stalkz said

For example, obviously the way NoAwareness refers to trans people as dudes who wanna chop their dicks off and live as women is gonna be read by any trans person or ally as transphobic, but it's not, and it's not harmful to anybody for him to talk that way, because he's not saying what he's saying to hurt trans people. I genuinely don't think that in a culture that respected trans people and didn't view them as an Other he wouldn't talk about them that way, but that's neither here nor there. The point is he's not saying what he's saying maliciously. 

Just for the record, when I say that, Im only referring to the lowest most basic level of the trans experience. Everyone has their own journey, struggles and reasons for everything and non of it directly affects me so more power to them.

The only thing I get even remotely bothered by are the men who transition because they think being "a trans lesbian" is going to give them more opportunities to fuck women (A-La-Chris Chan) because, for me, thats insulting to every person on earth who struggles with their identity, no matter what it is (except trans-racial and trans-species coz thats just a mental health issue, lets be real). I dont have any identity issues (that im aware of) but have massive empathy for anyone who has to struggle with it, whilst having to share the same bus with that guy whos a virgin and puts on a tiara and tutu so he can get close to women.

If I say "a man who chops his dick off and is now living as a woman", im just starting at the bottom. Maybe I could be more tactful.

Stalkz said

It's completely all good, I genuinely am not trying to call you out by this talking point, I just felt like it was a good example of speaking in a way that's today considered unacceptable but is only that way because of the actual harm that hateful people intentionally cause being so overwhelming that trans people feel pressured to not cede any ground. I've been down since 98, and I grew up in the ghetto; there's no language that's gonna hurt me, and if there was, it wouldn't be offensive language composed of considerate thoughtfulness like yours. 

It's just a good contrast to Tom Macdonald who, in spite of going out of his way to try and seem egalitarian and all-inclusive, is obviously intentionally being polarizing to get people to buy his shit. 

You're one of my favorite ninjas to read here, I hope I didn't make you feel like I was calling you out.   

Who says this place is just full of hate? Look at this. Just 2 cool guys, loving and respecting each other.

Yeah I got you and I fully agree. Just wanted to be fully clear im not some hater. I mean, I kind of am but I try to have a reason when I am. 

Young Torture Killaz "I cut yo dick off"